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Funeral lockdown rules: Parents' last memory of teen is body being taken away

Author
Jason Walls, NZ Herald,
Publish Date
Wed, 6 May 2020, 11:46am
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(Photo / 123rf)

Funeral lockdown rules: Parents' last memory of teen is body being taken away

Author
Jason Walls, NZ Herald,
Publish Date
Wed, 6 May 2020, 11:46am

The last memory the distraught parents of an 18-year-old who died during lockdown have of their son was his body being removed from their home.

The tragedy of the death, a suspected suicide, was just one case touched on by Funeral Directors of New Zealand executive director David Moger when he appeared during the Epidemic Response Committee this morning.

Moger said that the last memory the parents had of their son was him being taken away from the home, and not sending him off properly at a funeral.

Moger said more than 2000 people died during the lockdown.

And because of the level 4 and 3 restrictions, the families of those 2000 people have not been able to properly grieve.

He called on the Government to organise a national minute silence to acknowledge those who have died in lockdown.

"We know that families need a meaningful farewell as part of that grieving process."
National Leader Simon Bridges agreed, and said he would support Moger's calls for the national minute silence.

'Inhumane' rules around births during lockdown

The committee also heard from Rebekah, who did not wish to provide her last name.

She said she was one of thousands of woman who gave birth during lockdown – a baby girl named Trinity.

Rebekah, based in Wellington, said the guidance was confusing and lobbying to the Government was ignored.

She said information was hard to get and birthing rules were different at different hospitals.

Rebekah, who was emotional during her appearance, said it was a human right to have a support person during birthing.

Her support person pulled out of her homebirth plan at 38 weeks.

"I absolutely did not want to be pregnant anymore," she said.

Another midwife pulled out of supporting her after that as well – she said she was "terrified".

"I felt like an animal," she said.

She said her partner was not able to stay on for long after her birth – which was done at the hospital.

"I don't support the draconian reasons for my partner not being able to be there," she said

"The requirement to be alone was inhumane."

Rebekah said post-birth, she missed out on a lot of post-natal support.

This made her feel like she "had no worth as a mother".

She said her birthing experiences has left her "disempowered."

National MP Louise Upston and Green co-leader Marama Davidson praised Rebekah for sharing her story with the committee.

Rebekah said she spoke because she "really wanted to make a difference".

"I really hope that something changes."

The committee is today focusing on the health impacts of Covid-19, and will hear from experts in various parts of the health sector.

Director general of health Ashley Bloomfield is among those appearing before the committee to field questions from MPs this morning.

Cancer Society medical director Chris Jackson earlier told the committee that the level 4 lockdown has resulted in a 30 per cent reduction in cancer diagnosis.

"The health system must now catch up… or lives will be lost."

But Jackson said if the post-lockdown health response is done right, diagnoses can "catch up" and there would be a lot fewer fatalities.

He said a three months delay in screening would result in 400 lives being lost.
"We owe it to them to make sure we make those diagnoses."

He said more funding was needed for the health sector to prevent this from happening.
"If we don't do… these scans, lives will be lost."

Jackson said one option would be to run a "super clinic" whereby a lot of people are tested at once.

But he warned against that, as many cancer diagnoses were quite complex.

Without more additional capacity, and more funding, Jackson said DHBs would have to prioritise different types of cancer screening.

That is not ideal, he said, as it would mean some people would miss out.

He also called on the private sector to step up after the lockdown to help with the influx of cancer screenings.

But by and large, Jackson said the lockdown has kept people with cancer safe.

However, he said there have been some issues, such as some people in hospital not being able to have support people present.

Pharmac has abandoned plans to fund a lung cancer drug, due to global supply issues, Jackson said.

This was a concern.

This comes as New Zealand has had two days of no new Covid-19 cases in a row.

Although Bloomfield said there was cause for celebration, he was also warning people to remain vigilant.

"Having zero new cases of Covid-19 to report for a second day in a row is very encouraging and all New Zealanders should feel pleased with their efforts," Bloomfield said yesterday.

"[But] We need to stay the course and not squander what we have achieved."

Bloomfield is expected to be questioned on the likelihood of coming out of alert level 3 early.

National leader Simon Bridges – who's also the chair of the Epidemic Response Committee – has been putting pressure on the Government to move into level 2 as soon as possible.

"I certainly am impatient for [Level 2]," he said earlier this week.

The Cancer Society, the Funeral Directors of New Zealand and Hospice New Zealand will also be appearing before the committee this morning.

"Even with Parliament resuming last week, the Epidemic Response Committee still has an important role to play," Bridges said.

"With one week until Cabinet decides whether New Zealand can move out of restrictive lockdown measures, it's crucial we have the opportunity to ask questions and put the spotlight on relevant issues."

Order of appearance at the Epidemic Response Committee
• Cancer Society, Dr Chris Jackson, (10am – 10.20am)
• Funeral Directors of New Zealand, David Moger, (10.20am – 10.40am)
• Hospice New Zealand, Mary Shumacher, (10.40am – 11am)
• Rebekah (surname withheld) (11am – 11.15am)
• Jennifer (surname withheld) (11.15am – 11.30am)
• Dr Ashley Bloomfield (11.30am – 12pm)

WHERE TO GET HELP:

If you are worried about your or someone else's mental health, the best place to get help is your GP or local mental health provider. However, if you or someone else is in danger or endangering others, call police immediately on 111.

OR IF YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE ELSE:

• 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP) (available 24/7)
• https://www.lifeline.org.nz/services/suicide-crisis-helpline
• YOUTHLINE: 0800 376 633
• NEED TO TALK? Free call or text 1737 (available 24/7)
• KIDSLINE: 0800 543 754 (available 24/7)
• WHATSUP: 0800 942 8787 (1pm to 11pm)
• DEPRESSION HELPLINE: 0800 111 757 or TEXT 4202

• Covid19.govt.nz: The Government's official Covid-19 advisory website

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