Christie, Cissy. Joanne. Jasmine. Marie. Blessie. Chozyn. Alicia. Verity. Nicole. Bella. Azalia. Crystal. Michelle. Noelene. Bridget. Gurpreet.Â
These are just some of the names of Kiwi women who should still be alive.Â
These are just some of the names that made headlines here – and around the world – when their lives were cruelly and violently ended, and mostly at the hands of men.Â
But these names are only the tip of the iceberg – highlighting only the worst of the worst cases of abuse, assault, revenge, deadly jealously, vile rage and the entitlement of some men to mete out violence and retribution at will.Â
Since January 2011 there have been 695 deaths in New Zealand categorised by police as homicides.Â
A homicide is the killing of one person by another.Â
In New Zealand charges that can arise from a homicide include murder and manslaughter and the overlapping offences of infanticide and driving offences causing death.Â
Data provided to the Herald by the police under the Official Information Act shows that of the homicides in the last decade, 211 of the victims were female.Â
Of those, 158 were adults aged 18 and over.Â
Twenty-two of the women were killed in driving or transport-related incidents including quad bike and boating incidents.Â
The rest died after violent or abusive incidents – and more than half were killed by a partner or family member.Â
Four of the women were pregnant when they were beaten or stabbed to death.Â
Others were murdered while their horrified children watched on close by.Â
Police are called out every four minutes to a domestic violence incident. Photo / Bevan Conley.Â
Police charged 20 partners – husbands, boyfriends or girlfriend – and 21 ex or estranged partners with murder or manslaughter.Â
Just three women were killed in attacks by random strangers and in each case they were out in broad daylight walking or exercising.Â
The list provided by police only includes homicide cases where someone has been charged.Â
There are other cases where women have been killed by partners or exes who also died.Â
For example, in January 2020 Sherine Nath, 32 was dead found at her Papatoetoe home.Â
Her young son was critically injured but survived.Â
Her husband Riki Nath, 34, was also found dead and is believed to have been responsible for the fatal incident.Â
In 2013 Glenys Stanton and her boyfriend Trevor Waite were shot dead at his South Auckland home.Â
Three days their killer John Mowatt – a man Stanton had previously spent time with – took his own life.Â
And on March 10 this year police believe Viliami Latu killed the mother of his four children Toakase Finau before ending his own life.Â
Police at the scene after Glenys Stanton and Trevor Waite were killed. Photo / NZHÂ
Latu had a long history of violence towards Finau and when they died was facing a raft of charges including assaulting her and breaching his bail conditions.Â
Finau had been granted a protection order against Latu but he ignored it completely – as he had with earlier police safety orders.Â
New Zealand has the highest rate of intimate partner violence against women in the OECD.Â
However, only about 20 per cent of incidents are ever reported so what we know from data collected by authorities is only a small glimpse into an ever-increasing and extremely serious problem.Â
Here, one in three women – 35 per cent – have experienced physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence in their lifetime.Â
When psychological and/or emotional abuse is included, that figure increases to 55 per cent of women.Â
While men can also be the victim of intimate partner violence, the majority of the abuse perpetrated is against women.Â
In most of the cases where women were killed someone was put before the courts charged with murder or manslaughter.Â
And in most cases, they pleaded guilty or were convicted after a jury trial.Â
A few killers were found not guilty of a murder charge by reason of insanity and while they were not criminally culpable there is no question that they were responsible for the death.Â
In those cases, the killers were detained indefinitely as special patients to forensic psychiatric units.Â
In one case – the death of Auckland woman Cissy Chen – her partner was charged with murder but walked free after a jury found him not guilty.Â
Police said they would not reinvestigate Chen's death and were not looking for anyone else in connection with the crime.Â
Family or domestic violence is an umbrella term that includes: intimate partner physical and sexual violence, child abuse and neglect, sibling abuse, parental abuse, elder abuse, and violence against disabled people.Â
If you or someone you know is being abused in any way – please reach out for help. A list of help services and information can be found at the bottom of this story.Â
If you are being harmed, remember, it is never your fault.Â
Today the Herald remembers and pays tribute to all of the women killed in New Zealand in violent and murderous incidents in the last decade.Â
Decade of death: Our lost women rememberedÂ
These are the details of the women who have died in violent circumstances from January 1 2011 to October 16 2021.Â
Names marked with * indicate cases where a protection order, trespass order or bail with non-contact condition were in place at time of the victim's death.Â
Some of the women cannot be named at this time due to court ordered suppression.Â
2011Â
Ranjeeta Sharma, 28Â HuntlyÂ
Burned alive by her husbandÂ
Ranjeeta Sharma. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Titiksha Desai, 45Â
East AucklandÂ
Stabbed by her estranged husbandÂ
Sandra Brown, 58Â
TaurangaÂ
Stabbed by her daughter's ex-boyfriendÂ
Lesley Johnston , 60Â
RoxburghÂ
Shot by her estranged husbandÂ
Stacey Lake, 23Â
Otaki BeachÂ
Shot by her boyfriendÂ
Susan Audley, 44Â
TaurangaÂ
Fatal assault at a mental health facility by another patientÂ
Eman Hurmiz, 41Â
WellingtonÂ
Stabbed by her husbandÂ
Bronwyn Sadler, 47Â
ChristchurchÂ
Stabbed by her partnerÂ
Lusi Aleni, 41Â
BalcluthaÂ
Stabbed by her husbandÂ
Christie Marceau. Photo / SuppliedÂ
*Christie Marceau, 18Â
North ShoreÂ
Stabbed by obsessed ex colleague who was on bail for kidnapping, assaulting herÂ
2012Â
Tracy Morris, 46Â ChristchurchÂ
Strangled by a male friendÂ
Lisa Corbett, 37Â
NelsonÂ
Strangled by her former partnerÂ
Sanchia Wilson, 33Â
WanganuiÂ
Fatal overdose administered by her boyfriendÂ
Rosemary Kurth, 50Â
OkokiÂ
Shot by her partner's teenage grandsonÂ
Sharon Foley, 39Â
RichmondÂ
Stabbed by her abusive estranged partnerÂ
Michelle Lawrence. Photo / SuppliedÂ
*Michelle Lawrence, 41Â
ChristchurchÂ
Beaten by jealous on-off partnerÂ
Rae Portman, 33Â
South AucklandÂ
Pregnant woman beaten to death and dumped by drug associatesÂ
Rae Portman. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Woman, name suppressedÂ
ChristchurchÂ
Stabbed to death by man known to herÂ
*Robyn Prole, 57Â
TaurangaÂ
Stabbed by her abusive estranged husbandÂ
Robyn Prole. Photo / SuppliedÂ
*Ashlee Edwards, 21Â
WhangareiÂ
Drowned by her abusive former partnerÂ
Ashlee Edwards. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Mary Donnelly, 38Â
Upper HuttÂ
Strangled by her former neighbourÂ
Maryann Akuhata, 48Â
GisborneÂ
Set on fire by her partnerÂ
Anne McCullough. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Anne McCullough, 45Â
New PlymouthÂ
Jogger run down and killed by random manÂ
Â
Cissy Chen. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Bin "Cissy" Chen, 44Â
North ShoreÂ
Partner charged with her murder but acquitted after High Court jury trialÂ
Michelle Hoffman-Tam, 51Â
RotoruaÂ
Stabbed, mutilated by woman she had been seeing casuallyÂ
Michelle Hoffman-Tamm. Photo / Ben FraserÂ
Amanda Taufale, 33Â
WellingtonÂ
Stabbed by her ex-partner who hid in roof and waited to attackÂ
Alicia McCallion, 23Â
South AucklandÂ
Stabbed by her jealous ex-partnerÂ
Sina Solomona. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Sina Solomona, 22Â
AshburtonÂ
Violated, stabbed by stepbrotherÂ
2013Â
Patricia McGrath, 33Â WhangareiÂ
Assaulted by her abusive on-off partnerÂ
Patricia McGrath. Photo / Michael CunninghamÂ
Robyn Grace, 43Â
BlenheimÂ
Killed with axe by her sonÂ
Nicola Fleming, 38Â
InvercargillÂ
Violated, beaten by her jealous ex-partnerÂ
Carmen PopataÂ
PamapuriaÂ
Shot along with her husband by nephew in execution-style killingÂ
*Gail Bower, 48Â
Havelock NorthÂ
Stabbed by estranged husbandÂ
Gail Bower. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Barbara Moka, 32Â
OmanaiaÂ
Beaten by her ex-partnerÂ
Georgina Manuel, 28Â
KaitaiaÂ
Deliberately run over by her partnerÂ
Georgina Manuel. Photo /SuppliedÂ
June McGowanÂ
West AucklandÂ
Stabbed to death by her sonÂ
Mei Fan, 37Â
WellingtonÂ
Stabbed by her ex-husbandÂ
Mei Fan. Photo / SuppliedÂ
*Sarwan Lata, 38Â
WellingtonÂ
Stabbed by her estranged husbandÂ
Jasmine Cooper, 26Â
Te HanaÂ
Beaten, strangled by her ex-partnerÂ
2014Â
Amy Farrall, 24,Â
ChristchurchÂ
Raped and killed by new flatmateÂ
Amy Farrall. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Sidra Malik, 18Â
West AucklandÂ
Stabbed by her father who also killed her mother the day before they planned to leaveÂ
Farhat Malik, 26Â
West AucklandÂ
Stabbed by husband she planned to leave the next dayÂ
Blessie Gotingco. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Blessie Gotingco, 56Â
North ShoreÂ
Run down in car, raped, stabbed by man unknown to herÂ
*Susan Cleveland, 55Â
AshburtonÂ
Shot by man known to her through her work at WINZÂ
*Peggy Noble, 67Â
AshburtonÂ
Shot by man known to her through her work at WINZÂ
Bimla Wati, 47Â
AucklandÂ
Stabbed by her partnerÂ
Heidi Welman-Scott. Photo / SuppliedÂ
*Heidi Welman-Scott, 41Â
North ShoreÂ
Stabbed by her estranged husbandÂ
Sandra Guerin, 55Â
Upper HuttÂ
Attacked with axe by her son's friendÂ
Aileen Macdonald, 69Â
NapierÂ
Fatally assaulted by her daughterÂ
2015Â
Ena Lai Dung, 76Â ManurewaÂ
Fatally neglected by her daughter and unrelated housematesÂ
Ena Lai Dung. Photo / NZMEÂ
Gwendoline Blake, 71Â
StratfordÂ
Beaten, stabbed by her sonÂ
Catherine Stewart, 56Â
KapitiÂ
Stabbed by a man known to herÂ
Virginia Ford, 20Â
Palmerston NorthÂ
Beaten by her partnerÂ
Sherena WilliamsÂ
Upper HuttÂ
Stabbed by a man at a partyÂ
Katrina Drummond, 47Â
TaupoÂ
Beaten with a claw hammer by her husbandÂ
Katrina Drummond. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Davina Nguyen, 49Â
South AucklandÂ
Stabbed by her boarderÂ
Parmita Rani, 22Â
AucklandÂ
Stabbed by her partner at her college after she sat an examÂ
Parmita Rani. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Vicki Warrington, 48Â
DunedinÂ
Stabbed at home by a man known to herÂ
Victoria Foster, 24Â
NapierÂ
Shot by her ex-partnerÂ
Karin Ross, 53Â
DunedinÂ
Attacked with hammer by a disgruntled employeeÂ
Helen Silverwood, 55Â
WellingtonÂ
Stabbed by her sonÂ
2016Â
Joanne Pert, 41Â AucklandÂ
Killed by a random man while jogging in broad daylight on a busy streetÂ
Jo Pert. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Cunxiu Tian, 69Â
West AucklandÂ
Violated, beaten by a man who lived over the back fenceÂ
Raewyn Green, 50Â
HamiltonÂ
Fatal assault by her jealous partnerÂ
Tracy-Ann Harris 43Â
NelsonÂ
Smothered by her niece and friendÂ
Jindarat Prutsiriporn, 50Â
AucklandÂ
Fatally injured after jumping from a car boot during drug/gang kidnappingÂ
Jindarat Prutsiriporn. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Sharon Comerford, 54Â
SeacliffÂ
Bludgeoned by her neighbourÂ
Delia Williams, 55Â
WellingtonÂ
Run over by her abusive partnerÂ
Gurpreet Kau, 22Â
AucklandÂ
Stabbed by her partner while she was pregnantÂ
Queenie Karaka, 41Â
AtiamuriÂ
Beaten with iron pole by her partnerÂ
Heidi Pryor, 37Â
WellingtonÂ
Stabbed by female friend while out joggingÂ
Renee Duckmanton, 22Â
ChristchurchÂ
Strangled, dumped and set alight by sex work clientÂ
Renee Duckmanton. Photo SuppliedÂ
Ruby Knox, 22Â
BlenheimÂ
Disabled woman killed by motherÂ
Kim Richmond, 42Â
HamiltonÂ
Violent attack by her jealous husband who tried to cover it upÂ
Carly Stewart, 36Â
West AucklandÂ
Stabbed at a "pamper party" by female associateÂ
Linda Edwards, 58Â
AucklandÂ
Strangled, house set on fire by her sonÂ
Marie Harlick 35Â
OpotikiÂ
Brutal beating by her abusive partnerÂ
Marie Harlick. Photo / SuppliedÂ
2017Â
Leeanne Hart, 53Â North ShoreÂ
Fatal beating by her partnerÂ
Chozyn Koroheke, 22Â
South AucklandÂ
Shot by her abusive partnerÂ
Chozyn Koroheke. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Petra Frank, 58Â
TaupoÂ
Stabbed by her husbandÂ
Verity Barber, 40Â
InvercargillÂ
Shot by her jealous husband who was a police officerÂ
Alicia Nathan, 32Â
ChristchurchÂ
Stabbed at a house party by a womanÂ
Hayley Williams, 43Â
GreymouthÂ
Shot while her kids were nearby by a man she had earlier accused of an indecent assaultÂ
Arishma Chand, 24Â
ManurewaÂ
Stabbed by her obsessed ex-partnerÂ
2018Â
Anastasia Neve, 35Â DunedinÂ
Beaten and killed along with her partner by associateÂ
Aroha Kerehoma, 28Â
HamiltonÂ
Beaten by her enraged partnerÂ
Robyn Crawford, 37Â
OpotikiÂ
Stabbed by her late partner's son while she was pregnantÂ
Ariana Mahu, 37Â
TaurangaÂ
Stabbed at a marae by a male relativeÂ
Nicole Tuxford, 27Â
ChristchurchÂ
Raped and killed by a man she life coached. He was a murderer on parole.Â
Nicole Tuxford. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Yanyan Meng, 62Â
NelsonÂ
Strangled by husband while the couple were tourists in New ZealandÂ
Leigh Wallace, 50Â
OtorohangaÂ
Shot by her on-off partner after counselling sessionÂ
Lynace Parakuku, 22Â
RotoruaÂ
Beaten by her drunk, jealous partner while she was pregnantÂ
Keshni Naicker, 28Â
ChristchurchÂ
Stabbed by her jealous ex-husbandÂ
Jasmine Wilson, 29Â
WhanganuiÂ
Allegedly killed by abusive partner who remains before the courtsÂ
Woman aged 50Â
Bay of PlentyÂ
Domestic violence-relatedÂ
Grace Millane, 21Â
AucklandÂ
UK tourist strangled on her birthday by a man she met hours earlier on a TinderÂ
Grace Millane. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Xi Wang, 34Â
South AucklandÂ
Stabbed while holding her small child by her ex-husband who drove from RotoruaÂ
Michelle Hurinui. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Michelle Hurinui, 32Â
MatamataÂ
Beaten to death on Christmas Eve by her partnerÂ
2019Â
Miriama Raukawa, 45Â WhanganuiÂ
Stabbed by a man in a violent incidentÂ
Noelene Marinovich, 59Â
West AucklandÂ
Strangled, beaten by son with hammerÂ
Bridget Simmonds, 42Â
WhangareiÂ
Killed, buried by her ex-partner. Her body was not found for more than a yearÂ
Bridget Simmonds. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Edith Roderique, 70Â
Raumati BeachÂ
Killed by her partner at their retirement villageÂ
Ansi Alibava, 25Â
ChristchurchÂ
Shot by gunman while praying at her mosque in the Christchurch terror attackÂ
Husnd Ahmed, 44Â
ChristchurchÂ
Shot by gunman while praying at her mosque in the Christchurch terror attackÂ
Husna Ahmed. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Karam Bibi, 63Â
ChristchurchÂ
Shot by gunman while praying at her mosque in the Christchurch terror attackÂ
Linda Armstrong, 64Â
ChristchurchÂ
Shot by gunman while praying at her mosque in the Christchurch terror attackÂ
Linda Armstrong. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Lorna-Anne Thompson, 41Â
WhanganuiÂ
Killed by her partnerÂ
Taylor-Jade Hira, 29Â
HastingsÂ
Man charged with murderÂ
Police investigate Taylor-Jade Hira's death. Photo / Warren BucklandÂ
Irina Czibesz, 45Â
KapitiÂ
Killed by a man she met on online dating siteÂ
Feona McKay Patea, 23Â
WhanganuiÂ
Stomped to death by her partner of six monthsÂ
Woman, aged 30Â
CentralÂ
Domestic violence-relatedÂ
Grace Virtue, 90Â
LevinÂ
Home invasion attack by three teenage girlsÂ
Azalia Wilson, 22Â
InvercargillÂ
Beaten by her abusive ex-partnerÂ
Crystal Selwyn, 38Â
HamiltonÂ
Beaten with paving stone by ex-partner in front of their terrified childrenÂ
Barbara Quinn, 41Â
GreymouthÂ
Strangled and stabbed by her jealous exÂ
Bella Te Pania, 34Â
ChristchurchÂ
Strangled by sex work clientÂ
2020Â
Meliame Fisi'ihoi, 57 South AucklandÂ
Mistaken identity shooting, three men before the courtsÂ
Meliame Fisi'ihoi. Photo / GivealittleÂ
Sam Reid, 33Â
TaupoÂ
Beaten by her abusive partnerÂ
Tania Hadley, 47Â
AucklandÂ
Killed, set alight by her boarderÂ
*Shirley Reedy, 52Â
Te AnauÂ
Strangled by her abusive husband in a motelÂ
Shirley Reedy. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Pania Melrose, 57Â
Te TokoÂ
Killed with a hammer by her partner's sonÂ
Binder Kaur, 42Â
South AucklandÂ
Husband charged with murder and before the courtsÂ
Woman, aged 34Â
South AucklandÂ
Family violence-relatedÂ
*Chantel Wiki-O'Brien, 23Â
South AucklandÂ
Stabbed, set alight by her boyfriendÂ
Elizabeth Zhong, 55Â
South AucklandÂ
Former male business partner charged and before the courtsÂ
Ngawai Himiona, 37Â
HamiltonÂ
Man charged with murderÂ
2021Â
Chevana Fox, 29 NapierÂ
Suffered Huntingtons Disease and killed by her motherÂ
Elizabeth Bangera, 55Â
AucklandÂ
Killed by a man she knew alongside her husbandÂ
Kaye Harrison, 73Â
WellingtonÂ
Man known to her charged with murder and before the courtsÂ
Lena Zhang Harrap, 27Â
AucklandÂ
Killed while walking in park in broad daylight. Random man charged with murderÂ
Lena Zhang Harrap. Photo / SuppliedÂ
Woman, name suppressedÂ
WaikatoÂ
Man charged with murderÂ
Michelle Kaipara, 49Â
KawerauÂ
Man known to her charged with murder and before the courtsÂ
DO YOU NEED HELP?Â
If you're in danger now:Â
- Phone the police on 111 or ask neighbours of friends to ring for you.
• Run outside and head for where there are other people.
• Scream for help so that your neighbours can hear you.Â
• Take the children with you.Â
• Don't stop to get anything else.Â
• If you are being abused, remember it's not your fault. Violence is never okayÂ
Where to go for help or more information:Â
- Shine, free national helpline 9am- 11pm every day - 0508 744 633Â www.2shine.org.nz
• Women's Refuge: Free national crisis line operates 24/7 - 0800 refuge or 0800 733 843 www.womensrefuge.org.nz
• Shakti: Providing specialist cultural services for African, Asian and middle eastern women and their children. Crisis line 24/7 0800 742 584Â
• It's Not Ok: Information line 0800 456 450 www.areyouok.org.nzÂ
- by Anna Leask, NZ Herald
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